Daily, we have some lessons to learn, some are tough, others not so much, but most of them are about people and actions. About the fact that we are not looking in our own garden, but we immediately notice what the other is doing. About the fact that we consider ourselves to be perfect and we assume the right to do harm, sometimes willingly. We are willing to step over dead bodies just to follow our own interests. Why try to become a better person when we can only harm the ones around us?
I always believe that people are good and each and everyone has a soul. I do not judge by appearances, I give every person a chance to prove that he or she is a great person. Often times, I get to lie to myself that those people wish me well, as I wish them. I get involved, I dedicate myself, I am there when I am needed, I appreciate a friendship and I respect it.
However, my dears, I don’t always get as much as I offer. Ever more, I get to be surprised, sometimes shocked of how much people can hurt you. If they feel threatened, they fight back with all weapons and try everything to disregard you.
This doesn’t discourage me. I do realize that we are not all the same. I choose to be good, I choose to get involved, I put my heart in what I do and I respect everyone’s decisions. After all, the best weapons that we have left is ignorance.
The most important thing is that we learn from those experiences and we appreciate more the quality things we have in our lives. To be more ambitious, to keep moving forward. As I tell my students: “There is no positive or negative feedback. Its purpose is to make you better and better”. Therefore, I would like to thank everyone that makes me more ambitious. You are all wonderful!
And because I don’t want to finish in a stiff manner, let’s talk a little about clothes 🙂 After all, most upsets we solve by shoppin, don’t we? ;)) This fur coat is amazing, I fell in love with it since I first saw it on the site. I am sorry I saw it quite late, but I still ordered it. Still, it is not too thick, it’s perfect for this time of the year. As for the colour, there’s nothing that needs to be said, I can use it with plenty of outfits. Smart investment, I say! You can find it here if you like it. Just take into consideration that the package gets to you in about 3 weeks.
Photo Credit: Ionuț Maco
Hugs and kisses!